where will you be in 50 years?

i love graduation season; it is a time of reflection and hope. There is so much possibility ahead and the excitement is so thick, you could cut it with a knife.  it's been exactly one year since my college graduation, which is crazy to wrap my head around! i came across this 2012 mit graduation speech by sal kahn, and it really resonated with me.  it gives great advice and talks about regrets.  you can read the full transcript on the mit website or check it out on youtube.

film: exit through the gift shop

exit through the gift shop is a wonderful, wonderful film!  this kept me occupied on the elliptical for a full 90 minutes, which is NOT an easy feat.  it makes me want to become a street artist.  i don't know what my signature piece would be though.  every street artist has a trademark style.  it's available on netflix. if you haven't seen it, i highly recommend it. you can watch the extended trailer here.

now accepting netflix suggestions... anyone?

bucket list: summer travel

the summertime is travel time.  since i have a monday-through-friday, 9-to-5 job, i can't jet off around the world for months on end (as much as i would loveee to do that!)  instead, i must settle for weekend trips in places that my wonderfully amazing friends live; they offer me a spot their lovely couches for nothing but laughs and snuggles in return.  oh the life broke post-grad...  but i am definitely not complaining.  these trips are fucking awesome!

summer 2014 weekend trips:
1. martha's vineyard, MA
2. burlington, vt
3. Philadelphia, pa
4. atlantic city, nj
5. baltimore, md
6. new york, ny
7. montreal, ca
8. washington d.c.

do you have any fun trips planned for this summer?

If I type it, it must be true

the let's-get-healthy project

On this 27th day in the month of May in the year of 2014:
I, Ani, vow to become the healthiest version of myself.
No magic cleanses. No miracle pills. No lame excuses.
Just good old fashioned diet and exercise mixed with hard work.
I can do this, and I will do this.

Signed (in the forthcoming blood, sweat, and tears),
Ani

That is all.

happy memorial day

happy memorial day everybody!

(photo taken at the Korean War monument in washington dc)

happiness is a three-day weekend

cheers to white pants, standstill traffic, and overcrowded beaches! that's right, it's memorial day weekend aka the unofficial start of summer. per tradition, i'm scrambling to make plans while coming to terms with the fact that last year's summer clothes are two sizes too small. what are you up to this weekend?

10 german words with no english equivalent.  currently feeling: torschlusspanik.

this is why i love sophia vergara.

how i feel about cancelled plans.

lol... alec baldwin's preschool report card.

considered buying canned unicorn meat, but then i read the reviews and thought twice.

excuses, excuses, excuses

reasons i didn't start a blog sooner:

• all the good names were taken.
• i don't have a fancy schmancy camera and i'm too poor to afford photoshop.
• sometimes my thoughts are too dark for the frilly and light-hearted world of blogging.
• sometimes my thoughts are too superficial for the smart and noteworthy world of blogging.
• everything that's worth writing about has already been written about at least 10 different ways. if i read one more article about embracing your twenties, i'm going to pull my eyebrows out (just kidding, i love those articles! keep 'em coming)
• writer's block leads to random content. exhibit a: this post that you're reading right now.
• would it be distracting if i use all lowercase letters? ...but i like lowercase letters.
• choosing a theme is difficult for an indecisive soul like myself. lifestyle? preppy? weight loss? food? fashion? travel? #toomanychoices
• i'm a perfectionist and rarely satisfied with anything i do/create.
• and of course, the dreaded... what if people don't like me!?

oh! and another major dilemma: how do people find time for blogging? it's like a full-time job... except i can't add it to my resume ...and i don't get paid. the struggle is real.

but first, let me take a selfie

before i add any additional posts, i should probably put a face behind the blog. at first, i liked the dark-and-mysterious vibe of anonymity (a big part of me wanted to stay anon) but then my narcissistic side advised otherwise. so here i am.

without further ado... i present to you... me, Ani! in all my frizzy-hair-and-90's-turtleneck glory.

// EDIT: // selfie has been removed - i decided that i prefer to be dark-and-mysterious. hence, i have decided to slip back into the wonderful world of internet anonymity.

#allaboutme

• i have a 22-pound cat named lilo, she's a maine coon.
• i am addicted to coffee; it is my heroin.
• i'm an infj on the myer-briggs scale.
• i have a bachelor's degree in economics.
• i spent a full semester in melbourne, australia. my dreams were in an australian accent. yes, it was wonderful.
• i'm a libra (and have the same birthday as eminem).
• i am german, english, Irish  Portuguese, dominican, french moroccan, and cuban. people always ask.
• i was born and raised in new england.
• i love listening to national public radio (npr) and freakonomics podcasts.

do we have anything in common?

mind vom

i haven't been able to sleep lately.
i also haven't had the desire to write.

my mind is busy,
but it's not full.

my brain is on scan mode;
trying to find a thought worth settling on.

Nothing seems to be good enough.
will try again tomorrow.

(photo by Ariel Chiesa via curate 1k)

beach reads: before the silver screen

summer is just around the corner, yay! memorial day weekend marks the beginning of cookouts, bonfires, and trips to the cape.  it also marks the start of beach season, which means beach reading; my inner-nerd is over the moon with excitement.  this summer, my personal reading list consists of books that are due to hit theaters before the clock strikes 2015.

three reasons you should read the book before seeing the movie:

1. the book is usually always better than the movie
2. to avoid surprises (confession: i read the spoilers first)
3. to be one step ahead of that annoying friend that always brags about reading the book first and then points out every single detail that was different*

*disclaimer: do not be that annoying friend that always brags about reading the book first and then points out every single detail that was different

mockingjay by suzanne collins  -  watch the trailer  -  buy the book

the giver by louis lowry  -  watch the trailer  -  buy the book

gone girl by gillian flynn  -  watch the trailer  -  buy the book

the fault in our stars by john green  -  watch the trailer  -  buy the book

what's on your reading list?